“The Spiritual Power of Conscious Kink”

A 3 hour workshop diving into the vitality of power dynamics, voice activation, pleasure, and conscious, embodied, erotic play — This is a bite sized version of our day long immersion to get a taste of what we do and why.

If you are devoted to your personal growth, called toward the transformative potential of eros, and have always wanted to learn more about kink, but didn’t know where to start…this space was made for you.

This workshop will interweave teachings, demonstrations and discussions suitable for beginners and experienced players — meaning you don’t need any prior experience, just a readiness to be real, curious, and present. We’ll start at the root, meet you where you are and invite you into the voyeur's seat.

We teach from the belief that kink done well is a pathway to greater embodiment, liberation, and radical acceptance — a reclamation of agency in a world that often strips us of it.

WHAT IT IS

A gender inclusive, queer enthused event
A highly curated and intimate container.
We’re here to set up this skillset and container for you, trusting that you can hold yourself inside of it. Go at the pace of your own consent and capacity for integration. Titrate yourself as necessary
Healing may be a byproduct, but not an expectation.

WHAT IT AIN’T

An opportunity to numb out
A place to expect a peak experience, especially if you’re not available to do the necessary integration work to truly embody what you experience
A space for you to physically play with people. There will be no play with other participants during this round. We do hold a day long immersion and other events where play is on the table, but this workshop is not that.
A place to try to find a date. We love and encourage connection, and while new connections may be made, arrive to this event with the intention to learn, to stay connected to yourself and your experience.

GROUP AGREEMENTS

Arrive on time
Establish consent before physically touching others, or engaging in power dynamics/kink activities
Own your own experience and take care of yourself
Confidentiality - do not share about your experience in a way that exposes the identities of other participants.
No photographs or videos, outside of a private, designated area for photography - no sharing or posting photos on social media without explicit consent
Don’t yuck anyone else’s yum - no kink shaming

FLOW OF EVENT

Arrival at 5:30 PM

Locked door at 6:00

No refunds if you do not arrive on time

6:00 pm PROMPT start

6-6:15 Opening circle

6:15-6:45 Embodied Power Dynamics

6:45-7:30 Kinky Lecture Story Time

7:30-8 Demonstration Scene

8-9 Questions and Discussion

9:00 Participants exit

Tiered ticket prices at $44-$66

Meet your facilitators:

Kj Song (they/them)

Candidate: Masters in Divinity, Founder of PRAYEROTIC. Blending erotic artistry, expertise, and a deep commitment to radical acceptance and inclusion, KJ’s kink is out-of-the-box ministry and vice versa. With an extensive background rooted in both BDSM and holistic practices, KJ has crafted a unique approach to kink that goes far beyond what you may see in the movies. As a seasoned provider and ceremonialist, KJ specializes in crafting soulful experiences for those intrigued by surrender beyond the dungeon. When they’re not in the temple you can find KJ leading queer choirs, going to bed at a geriatric hour and eating an unhealthy amount of bacon.

Ashley Berry (she/her)

She is a professional dominatrix, embodied relationship coach, conscious kink educator, facilitator and DJ. She is also the co-founder of Wholistic Kink LLC. She blends her background in psychology, conscious communication practices, consent, body work, and somatics, with a play-based approach to relationships, shadow work, and personal growth, to create containers that support radical acceptance, erotic wholeness, and access to joy. She's passionate about building a consent-based, creatively expressed community, and am so grateful to contribute to this vision by doing what she loves most: nurturing relational harmony; sharing music, dance, and performance; and exploring erotic embodiment as a liberating practice.

Kyle Lovett (she/they)

They are a queer energy/body worker, ceremonialist and professional switch. Recovery, authentic creative expression and kink have been the three pillars to Kyle's own personal healing and it's her honor to educate, share stories and empower people through these topics. She has been a proud and active non-monogamous kinkster for a decade and is deeply passionate about supporting people navigating those realms. They are the co-founder of Wholistic Kink LLC where they produce events, run workshops, demo scenes at retreats and offer 1:1 kinky Holistic immersions. She personally works with individuals and couples to support their evolution into kink and/or CNM dynamics through virtual or in person sessions.